There is a sight glass built into the receiver drier. As you are filling the system it will go from showing bubbles passing "window" to clear. After sight glass goes clear add another 4 to 6 ozs and system should be fine.
How can you tell if a compressor is running weak? Has system been fully charged to max capacity and is unable to reach pressures specified on performance page in service manual? My experience has shown that either compressors work or they don't. I can't say I have seen many weak ones. Delicas use a scroll type compressor, It has no valves to fail. Mine was totally dead, it just made noise when clutch was engaged.
As far as replacing condenser goes I would inspect it for bits of metallic contamination on the inlet side before I decided to buy one. If it shows clean, run it. Use a Q tip. The receiver drier catches most of the pieces if a compressor is shedding parts. Failed expansion valves that are contaminated also indicate need to replace condenser.
I recomend replacing drier when compressor is replaced, always good practice. I think a 2004 Mitsubishi Montero (US Model) receiver drier will fit a 95 Delica w/4M40. It's likely that engine is irrelevant as the system with possible exception of compressor will be the same for all engines. The HVAC system is more of a body part than engine part.
LEAKS are going to be your biggest adversary in a Delica AC system. There are a lot of connections with a dual system. Any one of them of them are possible leakers. When your R134a leaks out the refrigerant oil will no longer move throught the system properly, the refrigerant gas carries the oil around the system, no gas, no oil, no lubrication equals compressor failure. All original O rings are old, black ones are inferior to the newer green ones, plus green ones will be new. I recomend changing all accessable O rings, pressure test system with nitrogen or CO2 for 24hrs a 250psi befor charging. Use refrigerant oil containing UV dye so if you do have a leak it is easier to find, a green stain is hard to argue with when looking for a leak.