Looks like you have all the right parts selected. 2x Seals, bearing, retainer, O-ring, shim kit. You're using your chassis number, right? Early axles have the bearing retained with a nut, later ones have a pressed-on retainer.
Cutting the retainer off is fairly easy: remove circlip, grind the retainer down, then hit it with a hammer and it will crack. Just don't grind all the way through the retainer and damage the axle.
Once the retainer is off the bearing will still need to be pulled off, and you'll need to make up some kind of puller that bolts to the backplate
You'll need a hydraulic press to install the new bearing retainer, so at that stage it's probably easier to take the axles to a shop. I've installed retainers by freezing the axles and heating the retainer, then pounding it on with a BFH and scaffolding pipe, but a hydraulic press is *way* easier. Also cleaner: you don't want dirt getting in your freshly packed bearings.
I recommend Redline CV2 grease. The rear bearings can't be repacked with grease, so it's worth using the best quality grease you can.